I’m sure you’ve heard the expression that “You catch more flies with honey than with vinegar”. In case you haven’t heard it, it means that you get much further with compliments than with put-downs and criticism. This is especially true in relationships. I’ve read that psychologists say that it takes as many as ten positive comments to offset one negative comment, but I don’t know whether or not that’s true. The power of one positive comment can be pretty amazing.
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You look hot and you know it. New shoes…new makeup…new dress. You spend the extra twenty minutes to look just right. You walk out to living room and he says: “We’re late, are you finally ready?”
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You look hot and you know it. New shoes…new makeup…new dress. You spend the extra twenty minutes to look just right. You walk out to living room and he says: “We’re late, are you finally ready?”
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You wouldn’t take something away from someone would you? Not you, you are a generous and kind person. You are a giving person. That is true, but you are taking something very special away from someone. Do you want to know what that is? When you don’t accept someone’s compliment, you are taking away from them. Yes, it is true. People give compliments as gifts to you. Sometimes that is the only thing they can give to you and when you reject it, you are rejecting their gift.
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